In thirty days I will be marrying the man of my dreams, my prince charming. When my marriage ended over five years ago I was absolutely devastated. I was the saddest I have ever been my whole life. My world felt like it was dumped upside down as I plum-ag to the depths of utter despair.

As I write this I am in complete understanding as to why I went through what I did. At the time it felt like pure agony. As I sit her thinking about the man of my dreams and how in a few short weeks I will be his wife I understand how it was all absolutely perfect and on purpose.

I know when we are in the middle of it all it doesn’t feel that way. And especially when our dear friends and family are telling us this to shall pass and all we want to do is crawl under our covers to never come out again. Of course they were right and of course at the moment they were telling us this we definitely didn’t believe them. How could something so painful ever feel better?

I am here to tell you it’s possible. I am also here to tell you that those devastating experiences we go through are actually part of the journey and if we are willing to take life by the hand and allow it to guides us we most definitely come out on the other side a new improved version of ourselves.

I thank God for my first husband. He taught me so much. And what I am the most grateful for is he definitely taught me what I didn’t want. By being in the relationship and experiencing what I did I became an expert at what I didn’t want. Therefore knowing exactly what I did want. Most of the time people would view this as a failure or a waist of time. I view this as absolutely perfect.

When my marriage ended I knew that I didn’t want to do that again. And I knew if I wanted something different than I needed to be different. I knew my old vibration created the first experience and my new uplifted vibration was going to create my new experience.

I did it!!!! I am so proud of myself. I did what was necessary to raise my vibration and bring to me the man of my dreams. By knowing what I didn’t want I was able to turn everything around and create what I did want. And remember to be grateful for what you didn’t want, because without it you wouldn’t know what you want.

What do you want? Do you think any part of your life was a waist of time? I invite you to look at life differently. You experienced everything you have experienced as part of this incredible journey. You definitely know what you don’t want. Now turn around and start putting your attention on what you do want.

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Ari L