44 More Days Until My Wedding

My wedding is right around the corner words can not describe how excited I am. Everything is coming together beautifully.

When we started planning the wedding we decided we wanted to plan it in a way that didn’t cost a lot of money. We really felt it wasn’t necessary to spend a ton. The most important thing was our love for each other. We were even thinking about eloping.We realized how important our wedding day was to so many people and eloping was out of the picture.

I got out my Act as if Change Your Life journal and I started writing about how incredible our wedding was. I described everything in such detail I could feel it.I would have an Act as if Change Your Life phone call’s with my mom. I would act as if I was talking to her and sharing with her how everything was coming together so beautifully.

What was I doing? I was tapping into my imagination and going from the place of what I was wanting was already mine. I was Acting as if and Changing My Life!!!

Sure enough everything started to unfold beautifully.

My amazing friend who has an absolutely gorgeous house offered to have our wedding at her house.

Her friends are in a band and they asked if they could play at our wedding.

My incredible friend who is a minister and an Act as if Change Your Life Coach graduate, offered to marry us.

Her talented daughter who just finished photography school wanted to know if she could shoot our wedding for her portfolio.

The minister who is marrying us, her husband wanted to know if he could be the videographer.

My graphic designer sister offered to do our wedding invitations.

My brother in-laws cousin works at a cool upscale second hand store in Newport Beach. She invited me to try on dresses. We had the store to ourselves for two hours. I found my dress and it is absolutely beautiful!

We were thinking about doing cupcakes instead of a wedding cake. A wedding cake would cost $300. My mom sent me a message letting me know Costco has amazing cakes.
Price $40

Every time I turn around more amazing things are being guided to me.


Because I am putting my attention on what I want.

I am Acting as if and Changing My Life!!!

Amazing things like this always happen to me!

I am an Act as if Master!

Stay tuned for more wedding details! I am so excited!

Ari L


About actasifchangeyourlife

Ari Lower is a motivational speaker, life coach, former childcare professional, and mother of two. Her dynamic speaking style and inspirational stories teach you that it is possible to have exactly what you want by “Acting as If…and Changing Your Life!”
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2 Responses to 44 More Days Until My Wedding

  1. Suzanne Turner says:

    Oh my gosh, you are amazing! What a beautiful wedding- you attracted all the right people and things to you, that’s for sure. Congratulations to a beautiful person, a beautiful couple!! I am lucky to have met you, thank you for your contribution to the 1st San Diego County Raw Fair, and keep up all the inspiring work! -Suzanne Turner, Kale University

    • Thank you so much for your wonderful words. Let’s definitely connect again. Come find me on Face Book I am under Ari Lower. I am the Ari Lower with the picture. It was really great connecting with you.

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