Contrast is Beautiful!

This week I was down and out with the flu. I was really sick. While I was laying there literally feeling like I must have been dying I kept thinking about how I felt before the flu.

I find it fascinating that it takes us getting sick to really appreciate wellness. It takes someone being mean to us to really appreciate kindness. It takes really hard times to appreciate abundance.

A lot of the single women I coach tell me they are failures because they have failed marriages.

I tell them they are not failures they are experts. They really know what they don’t want.

So therefore they really know what they do want.

Contrast is beautiful my friends!!! And when you truly can recognize that the life you have lived up to this moment has been filled with beautiful contrast so you can truly know what you want, you are going to start to look at life differently.

It doesn’t matter how old you are, how many times you have been married, how many times you have viewed yourself as a failure.

It is all beautiful Contrast!!! You really know what you don’t want. And when you know what you don’t want, you know what you do want.

And now is the time to start putting your attention on what you want. Be grateful and thankful for ALL past experiences and start looking at different ways to focus on what you want and raise your vibration.

When I was in my marriage it didn’t feel good. I knew what I didn’t want on a daily basis. When my marriage ended I really knew I didn’t want to experience something like that ever again. With all the classes, workshops that I had attended and books that I had read I knew in order for me to live a different life I needed to be different.

As soon as my marriage ended I turned away from what I didn’t want and started to focus on what I want. I acted as if I was in a loving beautiful relationship. I raised my Vibration.

The contrast has been beautiful!!!

I raised my vibration and brought to me what I wanted.

And the only way I could truly know what I wanted was to experience what I didn’t want.

Valentines Day is right around the corner. Are you dreading it? Do you find the day to be down right cruel?

You feel the way you do because of past experiences. You have contrast!!! You know what you want…because you have experienced what you don’t want.

What would happen if you started to look at Valentines Day different? What would happen if you started to raise your vibration?

Have you purchased my book yet” Creating the Love of Your Life, by Using Your Imagination”? Please do. And if you know someone that would benefit please pass along my website. I have set out a goal to reach 1000 people before Valentines Day, 961 more to go. With all of your help I know I can reach my goal. My technique works my friends it is tried and true. I am here to let the world know we can be do or have ANYTHING we want.

Your assignment if you to choose to do it..

Go to my website

Click on products you will see a green buy now arrow, click on the link and buy your book through Pay Pal.

This is a perfect Valentines Day Gift. Buy one for a friend.

Have an amazing week. I know I will. I have recovered beautifully from the flu and I am appreciating my health so much…

All my Love

Ari L

(Any one know what the L stands for? You will have to keep reading my blogs to find out.)


About actasifchangeyourlife

Ari Lower is a motivational speaker, life coach, former childcare professional, and mother of two. Her dynamic speaking style and inspirational stories teach you that it is possible to have exactly what you want by “Acting as If…and Changing Your Life!”
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